Just got engaged? Congratulations! Here’s your step-by-step guide to starting your wedding planning journey—from setting a budget to choosing your date and booking the perfect venue.
The holiday season is full of love, laughter, and sparkling moments—so it’s no surprise that it’s also one of the most popular times of the year for proposals. If you’re newly engaged, congratulations! You’re stepping into one of the most exciting seasons of your life.
Between the celebrations and the swirl of “when’s the wedding?” questions, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. But don’t worry—this guide will walk you through the first steps to take after saying “yes,” so you can start planning with confidence and joy.
Before diving into spreadsheets and checklists, slow down and enjoy the moment. Announce your engagement to close family and friends first, and then share your news on social media when you’re ready.
Plan a small celebration—whether it’s dinner with your parents or a cozy get-together with friends. This chapter deserves to be savored.
Spend time envisioning your perfect wedding day. Talk about what kind of atmosphere you both want—intimate and romantic, rustic and relaxed, or formal and elegant.
Questions to spark inspiration:
Creating a shared vision now will help you make decisions that truly reflect both of you.
Budget planning might not be the most glamorous part of wedding prep, but it’s one of the most important. Start by outlining your total spending limit and dividing it into major categories—venue, catering, photography, attire, and décor.
Pro Tip: Prioritize your top three elements (the “must-haves”). If the venue and photography matter most, invest there and scale back elsewhere.
Remember, a beautiful wedding doesn’t have to break the bank—it just needs to feel authentic and well-planned.
Your venue sets the tone for your entire day, so book it early—many top locations fill up 12–18 months in advance.
As you explore options, consider spaces that feel personal and adaptable. A venue like Millhouse in Rigby, Idaho, offers both elegant indoor and outdoor areas, perfect for cozy winter weddings or sunny spring celebrations.
Questions to ask yourself:
Once you find your dream venue, confirm your date—it becomes the foundation for booking all your other vendors.
Deciding who to invite can be tricky, but start broad and refine later. Make a “must invite” list (family, close friends) and a “would love to include” list.
The size of your guest list directly impacts your budget, venue choice, and catering plan, so aim for a ballpark number early on.
Once your venue and date are set, secure key vendors like your photographer, caterer, and florist. The best professionals book up quickly—especially during peak seasons.
If you’re hosting your celebration at Millhouse, ask about their preferred vendor list. Working with professionals who know the space ensures a smooth, coordinated experience.
It’s easy to get caught up in logistics, but don’t forget to have fun! Visit bridal shows, explore Pinterest for inspiration, and make planning dates part of your engagement.
Remember: this is about celebrating your love story, not creating a production.
Getting engaged is the start of something wonderful. With a little organization and a lot of excitement, you can plan a wedding that reflects your love and leaves lasting memories.
If you’re recently engaged and looking for the perfect place to begin your journey, Millhouse in Rigby, Idaho, offers timeless charm, flexibility, and all the amenities you need to bring your vision to life.
